Never is it okay morally to tell someone to kill themselves.
Especially when they are trying to learn shit and get their stuff right before saying anything. It’s not easy to find stuff out about gender and sexuality unless you KNOW WHERE TO LOOK. Please be patient unless someone is actually making a comment with harsh or judgemental intent.
Putting someone down because of a perfectly genuine accident (as in, they genuinely meant NO HARM by the comment but didn’t know better-and the remark was made trying to work things out and understand people better!) is NOT A GOOD WAY TO TEACH ANYONE.
I understand it can be frustrating to see people you may like or follow not fully understand struggles you all are going through. In this case, just an explanation will suffice and of course they will understand before they say something the next time.
IT IS STILL NOT OK TO KNOCK A PERSON LIKE THAT DOWN BECAUSE OF THAT FRUSTRATION. ALSO, THREATS LIKE THAT ARE STILL ILLEGAL.
(No I will not go into detail on the situation. If you know what’s going on, you know, but the person in question is currently dealing with a literal shitstorm and doesn’t need any more negative attention)